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11 Warning Signs He Is Cheating On You

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Modernization is making so many things easy for everyone to do. One of these opportunities is “cheating!” Yes, from messages on the phone to photos on social media, there are many ways people are finding new ways to cheat. So how are you supposed to know if your partner is being faithful? After all, you can’t just walk up to him and demand that he confess all his secrets to you. We all know that wouldn’t walk. Luckily for us, there are some telltale signs he is cheating on you. If you notice these 7 signs, start investigating! Read this article before it’s too late!

signs he is cheating

Has he started holding his phone differently? 

Many of us know that holding a phone to your ear for a long time and texting non-stop will draw the attention of everyone else in the room. The same thing goes for a husband or wife talking or texting to someone else on the phone. Does your partner use two phones, holding one in each hand and communicating with multiple people? If so, that could be a sign that he is cheating on you on his phone. Take note!

Does he frequently text and call someone different from you? 

If your partner begins to make lots of phone calls and texts to a different name, you may want to take a closer look at the situation. If he is lying to you, he is probably lying to someone else as well. Why would he tell everyone you’re his “best friend” and the person he comes to with all his problems? Why would he use a fake name if he isn’t trying to hide things? Either the person he is talking to is an old friend or an ex. Either way, you should definitely look into it!

Does he make other people’s calls and texts regularly?

If your partner is constantly answering calls from a co-worker or friend, you should be a little suspicious. The last thing a cheater wants is for their secret lover or ex-girlfriend to overhear them talking to someone else. If your partner is constantly hanging out with someone else and they always have to respond to calls and texts from that person, he might be cheating on you.

He is always out at parties?

If your partner is always out at parties and bars, that is usually not a good sign. Cheaters are usually the kind of people who are never out at a party unless there’s a reason for it, or they need to see or speak with someone they care about. If your partner is always out drinking and hanging out with their friends, it could be an indicator of infidelity. One of the signs he is cheating.

Has he started shopping for things you know he can’t afford?

If your partner is always looking to buy something that he or she can’t afford, that might be a sign of infidelity. Although, it does not 100% means he or she is having an affair, but if your partner doesn’t have much and always asking about costly things, what he has never bought for you, that could be an indication that your partner is looking to cheat on you. This is because being a cheater usually means that he has extra cash. Unless he ends up buying the things for you and you know he strived to get it.

Does he appear different on social media?

If your partner is posting pictures on social media that make them look drastically different than you are and he is, it might be an indication that he is having an affair. If you find that your partner is looking otherwise in his Facebook profile and you look nothing like that, that’s a red flag. However, some people who are looking for an affair might post pictures of themselves with other people to make it look like they are happy, or look different from someone else, that’s totally understandable.

Do you feel lonely all the time?

If your partner doesn’t talk to you, he or she will never get to know how lonely you feel all the time. Even if he or she is having an affair, you would still be there. If your partner is constantly comparing you with others and spends his or her time sleeping or having intimacy with other women, it is one of the clear signs he is cheating.

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Has he stopped Intimacy or contact during the arousal? 

In general, when a man is no more interested in making love to you or used to not looking you in the eyes when you make love with him, it is a sign he is cheating. You have to talk to him about what the problem is if he doesn’t stop this. He may be cheating on you, and he doesn’t want to do anything about it.

Does he now confide in his friends about you?

This is a great sign that he has been cheating on you. He will tell his friends that he doesn’t think you should be together and tell his friends that you are too complicated.
He will constantly talk about you to his friends. This is a clear sign that he is cheating on you.

Does he detest communicating about his ex?

If you suspect that your man has been cheating on you, he will always tell you that he is single, no plans or plans to change his lifestyle. He will never reveal his ex’s name, address, work, or hobbies. It is a red flag that a man has been cheating on you with his ex if he won’t tell you about an ex that he has been sleeping with and why. If he has been sleeping with another woman for 2 years, he can’t help but be attracted to her. He would always think about her when with you and when at home. He is spending a lot of time thinking about her when with you and when he is at home.

If you notice any of these 10 signs, your man may be cheating on you. You can save yourself from heartbreak and also save the relationship before it is too late by reading below:

6 things you should actually do if you think your partner is cheating

Thank you for reading!

Maryam Awodele
Maryam Awodele

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